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Summer Camp: Three Uneasy Pieces
Summer camp

Summer Camp: Three Uneasy Pieces

Recent news made me revisit my kid’s time at the famous arts camp. I wouldn’t wish that culture on any family
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Noa Rabinow
Transvestigating Women’s Tennis
Sports

Transvestigating Women’s Tennis

Far from ”protecting” players, mandatory genetic “sex testing” has ominous implications for women and kids
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Noa Rabinow
Denny and Me: Guest writer J Brooke
Family

Denny and Me: Guest writer J Brooke

You often hear that queer people have chosen family. But sometimes, your queer family includes the one you were born into
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Trans Parent, Anti-Hero
Leaving the country

Trans Parent, Anti-Hero

I can’t persuade my trans teen to leave the country.
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Noa Rabinow
In Quiet Search of Freedom: Guest Writer Jess Drucker
Leaving the country

In Quiet Search of Freedom: Guest Writer Jess Drucker

I thought I was going to spend my career helping queer people build adventurous lives abroad. Instead, I have a front-row seat to something I wasn’t expecting: the courage of parents seeking safety for their trans kids
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Some Difficult Things to Know How to Do
Dealing with the past

Some Difficult Things to Know How to Do

What was I supposed do with cherished photographs of my trans kid before they transitioned?
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Tina Carson
Explaining Transness to My Dad, Again
Grandparents

Explaining Transness to My Dad, Again

A bit of progress in an ongoing, painful conversation I am bound to keep having, for my whole family’s sake
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Isa Lichen
Tiny Useful Fact #3
Tiny useful facts for allies

Tiny Useful Fact #3

Seizing private healthcare data of trans youth threatens all of us, not just trans youth.
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“Lady Parts,” You Say?
Gender nonconforming

“Lady Parts,” You Say?

What lady parts? I see only camel toe, hairy underpants, and a group chat about endometriosis
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Noa Rabinow
A Trans Rights Sticker in an Unlikely Town: Guest Writer Djuna Donne
Safety

A Trans Rights Sticker in an Unlikely Town: Guest Writer Djuna Donne

But maybe there aren’t unlikely towns anymore?
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But You Said Not to Look Back!
Photos

But You Said Not to Look Back!

My kid hated pictures of her pre-transition self. Then suddenly she didn’t.
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Noa Rabinow
“Nobody Knew About This Back Then”
Books

“Nobody Knew About This Back Then”

For Ren Cedar Fuller, growing up with a maybe-probably trans mom and siblings was natural—there just weren’t words for it. Fuller’s new essay collection, Bigger, is wise, beautiful, and essential
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Noa Rabinow
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