Living stealth Two Kinds of Stealth My daughter doesn’t talk about being trans. I understand—I submerged my Jewishness for most of my life
Safety A pause, a mark on the timeline The past eight days have been hard on our community. How are you?
Leaving the country Gender Defiant in the New Yorker JJ and I moved to Mexico. Visual storyteller Sam Wolson made a piece about it. It’s an American story everyone should see.
Leaving the country “But you’re safe where YOU live, right?” Even in a sanctuary state, safe for who is a question, and safe for how long is another. JJ and I are planning to leave the country.
Road trips Who Wants Candy? Republicans think trans girls are monsters. It's a fantasy people are eating up
Marriage What I Need Defending From Trans children are not dangerous. The dangerous people in my life are the ones I have slept beside.