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The Beautiful Dream of Nobody Cares
LGBTQ+

The Beautiful Dream of Nobody Cares

Two gay men, decades ago, blew the doors off my assumptions. It's like they were sent from the future, where I had a trans kid
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Noa Rabinow
Summer Camp: Three Uneasy Pieces
Summer camp

Summer Camp: Three Uneasy Pieces

Recent news made me revisit my kid’s time at the famous arts camp. I wouldn’t wish that culture on any family
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Noa Rabinow
Trans Parent, Anti-Hero
Leaving the country

Trans Parent, Anti-Hero

I can’t persuade my trans teen to leave the country.
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Noa Rabinow
Was I an Ally or a Failure? – Guest Writer Madeline Hayes
Family

Was I an Ally or a Failure? – Guest Writer Madeline Hayes

My son said I went to Trans Pride for selfish reasons, not to support him. I took it hard
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Update from Mexico City
Leaving the country

Update from Mexico City

It’s good here. Also, it’s not utopia. JJ and I are slowly learning the nuances of healthcare and gender culture
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Tina Carson
Two Kinds of Stealth
Living stealth

Two Kinds of Stealth

My daughter doesn’t talk about being trans. I understand—I submerged my Jewishness for most of my life
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Noa Rabinow
Safety

A pause, a mark on the timeline

The past eight days have been hard on our community. How are you?
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The Friendships We Risk Losing
Dealing with the past

The Friendships We Risk Losing

Breakups happen when friends fail to understand trans realities. Can we get these friendships back?
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Tina Carson
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