Explaining Transness to My Dad, Again
A bit of progress in an ongoing, painful conversation I am bound to keep having, for my whole family’s sake
Grandparents
But You Said Not to Look Back!
My kid hated pictures of her pre-transition self. Then suddenly she didn’t.
Memory Lane Change
Digital photo companies’ gender adjustment tools let you align your past with your true self. It’s truly “reparative AI”
Thanksgiving surprise from a 93-year-old
Sometimes the person who struggles the most when your kid comes out changes the most
A Stranger in the House
In their dementia, my parents don't know they are destroying their relationship with their trans granddaughter. Every minute I am with them is an agony