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Coming Out

The Limits of my Queerness
Coming Out

The Limits of my Queerness

I knew binary gender was a myth when I was 15. You’d think l would understand my young child’s transness. But I have so much to learn
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Isa Lichen
My Kind of Gender Reveal Party
Coming Out

My Kind of Gender Reveal Party

Why this cis mom changed her pronouns
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Noa Rabinow
Coming Out, Like a Flower
Coming Out

Coming Out, Like a Flower

Don’t we have better things to do than tell folks they have to be someone or something they aren’t?
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Tina Carson
In a Shell
Coming Out

In a Shell

When the egg breaks there is no going back; there is your life before and your life after. It’s the coming-out metaphor—but parents live it, too
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Alone with My Child’s Childhood
Coming Out

Alone with My Child’s Childhood

When my trans teen said “don’t send me photos,” it felt like she ripped up our shared past
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Noa Rabinow
Coming Out

My Daughter is a Girl Because She Knows She is a Girl: Guest Writer Benjamin Erwin

Right now, politicians are screaming a lie that being trans is abnormal. Eventually, we will all trust that our children are who they say they are
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Denny and Me: Guest writer J Brooke
Family

Denny and Me: Guest writer J Brooke

You often hear that queer people have chosen family. But sometimes, your queer family includes the one you were born into
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