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YOU’VE GOT THIS. (How Will You Spend Inaguration Day?)
Solidarity

YOU’VE GOT THIS. (How Will You Spend Inaguration Day?)

We here at Gender Defiant prefer to think of it as Martin Luther King Day.
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Election Disbelief

Election Disbelief

When I woke up to his win on the morning of November 6, 2024, I felt physically ill. He had demonized my child, used her as a pawn in his divide and conquer strategy, and it had worked
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Pregnancy

My Trans Child And I: Two and the Same

While I was pregnant, folks failed to understand that my and my baby’s well-being are intertwined. The same holds true now that they are a teen
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Tina Carson
Coming Out

Guest Writer Benjamin Erwin: “My Daughter is a Girl Because She Knows She is a Girl”

Right now, politicians are screaming a lie that transness is abnormal. But eventually, we—parents, teachers, neighbors, lawmakers—will trust our children
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Do Not Assume my Veteran Husband is MAGA
Solidarity

Do Not Assume my Veteran Husband is MAGA

Why would MAGA think a career military veteran would support a president who does not believe in the Constitution he risked his life to defend?
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Guest writer Ashley Musselwhite: “Headspace in a Red State”
Gender nonconforming

Guest writer Ashley Musselwhite: “Headspace in a Red State”

Moving a gay teen out of the city might seem counterintuitive. But in rural Kentucky, my gender nonconforming child found peace, and her true self
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Guest writer Beck: ”That‘s because you were on T”
Gender affirming care

Guest writer Beck: ”That‘s because you were on T”

As a trans man, no matter what issue I bring to a doctor, they blame my past hormone care instead of doing research. That puts my health—and the health of countless trans people—at risk
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Everybody Poops
Bathrooms

Everybody Poops

We need all-gender bathrooms in every business, church, and school. Here's why.
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Guest writer J Brooke: “Denny and Me”
Family

Guest writer J Brooke: “Denny and Me”

You often hear that queer people have chosen family. But sometimes, your queer family includes the one you were born into
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Ta-ta, French Immersion Camp
Summer camp

Ta-ta, French Immersion Camp

Until you have legit nongendered facilities, don’t tell me you “welcome” trans kids. We learned our lesson—and found a great summer camp option
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Tina Carson
The Friendships We Risk Losing
Dealing with the past

The Friendships We Risk Losing

Breakups happen when friends fail to understand trans realities. Can we get these friendships back?
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Tina Carson
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