Leaving the country “But you’re safe where YOU live, right?” Even in a sanctuary state, safe for who is a question, and safe for how long is another. JJ and I are planning to leave the country.
Coming Out Coming Out, Like a Flower Don’t we have better things to do than tell folks they have to be someone or something they aren’t?
Marriage What I Need Defending From Trans children are not dangerous. The dangerous people in my life are the ones I have slept beside.
Pregnancy My Trans Child And I: Two and the Same While I was pregnant, folks failed to understand that my and my baby’s well-being are intertwined. The same holds true now that they are a teen
Nonbinary kids Ta-ta, French Immersion Camp Until you have legit nongendered facilities, don’t tell me you “welcome” trans kids. We learned our lesson—and found a great option
Dealing with the past The Friendships We Risk Losing Breakups happen when friends fail to understand trans realities. Can we get these friendships back?